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Friday, February 11, 2011

Sorry I havent blogged lately.... :( Personal - no like-y - no read-y.

Hey girls,

Im really sorry I haven't been blogging lately, something major has happened - majorly horrible. I havent really told anyone yet and I need to get it off my chest!

My husband is leaving me.

Ouch. I thought we were happy, I was happy, He was faking it. He said he still loves me - and he wants to be with me - but he can't handle the stress of the kids. ,...Wait. what the fuck. The man who wanted the children, the house, the dogs, the marriage - can't handle it anymore.  My heart hurts.

Right now he is living about an hour away with his Uncle, and Im staying at our house with the kids and pets. I just don't know what to do :(.

Anyways Im sorry I havent blogged lately and Im sorry if I havent commented on anyone's blog. Ive been moping. Ill have some posts coming up soon, I promise just bare with me.


I love you girls. :)

24 comments:

  1. I'm really sorry to hear that :(
    i hope you know all us blogging girlies are always here for you!
    Be strong xxx

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  2. OMG Alicia I was just thinking about you...I'm so sorry to hear that! Be strong. I know what your feeling that happened to me too with my husband. If you need to email me please do...you have my email. Im here for you love.

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  3. really sorry to hear that girl!! you certainly don't deserve that! hope you feel better soon xoxo

    http://www.blushmebeauty.blogspot.com

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  4. "i still want to be with you, but don't want to help care for our family" - fuck that. become selfish, leave him first, move in with your family, provide for yourself.

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  5. So sorry to hear that. Don't be sorry for not blogging! As for HIM..wow. I can't imagine what you're going through. Just be strong for your kids and YOU. It's his loss.

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  6. Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry Hun. I can't believe how selfish he is - what a pig. Sending my love xxx

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  7. Alicia, you are an amazing woman and I'm sure an amazing mother. You don't deserve what is happening but you also deserve something better than someone faking happiness. We all love you and know you are strong. If you ever need anything, email me!

    You are an amazing woman! Keep your head up! XOXO

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  8. Oh wow, seriously, no need to apologize. I'm sure we all understand. Best of luck to you during this tough time. <3

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  9. Oh no! I am so sorry you're having to go through this. I hope things work out for the best for you.

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  10. Holy crap! Don't apologize for not blogging or commenting on others - just take VERY GOOD care of yourself right now. That is most important. We will always be here upon your return to the blogging world - or start a blog about all of this to help you process. Take care.

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  11. How horrible I am sorry to hear this. I wish you the best remember to stay strong for your kiddies!

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  12. I'm so sorry. That must be so hard for you. We are all here for you if you need someone to vent to/talk to/cry to...
    xx
    Alicia

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  13. so sorry to hear that hun,hope u can work things out properly with him but if he doesnt want to U gotta be strong&courageous for urself&kids.Be strong&dont stress2much abt it just take things easy one step@a time

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  14. I, too, am sorry for what you are going through. Right now, don't even worry about your blog. We understand. We just want for you to take care of yourself and your children. That's what's important. He's being selfish and you don't deserve that. No woman does. Take it easy and just focus on finding the strength within you to continue on. It's there. Right now it doesn't feel like it but in hard times is where you find out how amazingly strong you are inside. Wish you nothing but the best. XXOO

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  15. ((HUGS)) I'm terribly sorry about your sorrow and pain. Truly, I hope there is something so much better for you down the road that you will look back and say, 'yes, it was hard to go through, but I'm sooooo much happier now'. I had to think about that when my husband left me. Fortunately, I didn't have any children, pets or a mortgage then, but it hurt deeply, nonetheless.

    Be strong! Hang tough!

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  16. Omg...So sorry to hear that. I hope everything will work out fine for u n yr kids. You'll get through this...just stay strong. Hugs.

    ♥xx♥

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  17. I'm so sorry to hear this sweetheart.

    Be strong x x

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  18. Life can be so difficult and unexpectedly unfair
    I am sorry to hear about your troubles, take it day by day, you sound very strong and you have your kids to help you get through this, together you will rise even stronger! I hope one day it all makes sense...much love to you and family at this hard time! Asshole!!!

    fashionableroad.blogspot.com

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  19. Oh dear , so sad to hear that ! Sending love from Belgium ... take your time , i'm sure everyone understands it . Step by step you get trough this , together with your kids and your pets too . Bug hugs my dear ! Take care X

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  20. Whoa... I'm so sorry to hear this Alicia. :( We're always here for you if you want to talk *hug*. I can't believe him, what the hell?! Son of a bitch "can't handle it"? How does he think you feel? You are a very strong person and I know you will pull through this just keep your head high and fight for everything you can because you deserve it. You'll find you're happiness again, I promise you. :)

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  21. Omg Alicia, I was just thinking of you, and then I read this :x I'm so sorry about what happened! We understand if you need to take a break to mend and heal. We may never understand people sometimes, and the things they do. I wish you and your family the best. Take care dear!
    xoxo
    SiSi

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  22. I just read it... I am sorry to hear that :( I hope you are holding strong. :) Lots of hugs and kisses. ALl the best to you and your family.

    x0x0

    lifelittlesurprises.blogspot.com

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  23. I had no idea! I've been away for so long dealing with my own bullshit I didn't realize there was somebody else out there hurting. I'm so sorry darling!! If there's anything you need you just gimme a holler!! I'm pretty sure we live close to each other and even though we've never met, us girls gotta stick together!
    Keep your head up high!! He clearly doesn't deserve you and keep in mind it's his loss! You did nothing wrong!

    Love always!!
    Zxen

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